PRIDE = ARROGANCE
DEEP FEELING OF SELF PLEASURE OR SATISFACTION DERIVED FROM SELF ACHIEVEMENTS.
HUMBLE = NOT ARROGANT, ASSERTIVE, EGOISTIC, CONCEITED OR PRETENTIOUS
HUMILITY = THE STATE OF BEING HUMBLE.
PRIDE = DISGRACE.
PRIDE = IMPRISONS YOU
PRIDE = LOSS OF EVERYTHING
HUMILITY = CONTENTMENT.
HUMILITY = YOU GAIN FREEDOM FROM EVERYTHING
A man with PRIDE, suffers from this:
1) Full of yourself
2) Always looking down on people
3) Makes others feel bad, because they are not like you
4) Difficulty in accepting fault
5) You are never wrong
6) Cannot say, "PLEASE, THANK YOU, I AM SORRY, PLEASE FORGIVE ME"
7) People avoid you
8) You have a reputation of failed relationships
9) You are unteachable
10) Opportunities begin to SKIP you
What is your WEAKNESS?
What is your STRENGTH?
Are you ALWAYS RIGHT?
Are you able to apologise?
Are you able to sincerely ask for forgiveness?
Are you able to be KIND, or is this task too difficult for you?
Are you able to let others speak while you LISTEN?
IF NOT, YOU HAVE A PROBLEM
LOVE BLOCKER = EGO
ACTION = LET IT GO
COMMUNICATION is KEY
1) INITIAL DISTANCE is necessary
2) When the FLAMES subside, reach for her HAND
3) ALLOW YOUR BODY LANGUAGE TO SPEAK THROUGH THE SORROW OF EMOTION
4) DO NOT preoccupy yourself with other people
5) Be AVAILABLE to LISTEN ACTIVELY WITHOUT INTERUPING
DO NOT RESPOND IN ANGER
RATHER TURN AROUND, DO NOT VENT
WAIT
WAIT
WAIT
TAKE THE FLAMES
TAKE THE SCREAMING. IT IS PART OF HEALING
TAKE AND FACE THE MUSIC. BE READY TO DANCE
IF YOU FORGIVE = TIME = HEALS = PROVIDES YOU A THICKER SKIN
GIVE HER TIME
GIVE HER SPACE
GIVE HER OPPORTUNITY TO SPEAK
ALLOW HER TIME TO THINK
ALLOW HER TIME TO COOL DOWN
ALLOW HER TIME TO AGREE TO LISTEN
WHEN SHE IS READY, SHE WILL ACCEPT YOUR COMPANY
LISTEN
LISTEN
LISTEN
UNFORGIVENESS
Is it binding you?
Is it leading you further away from reality and other people ?
Is it making you believe the LIES you keep telling yourself?
Such as, "I AM RIGHT"
Such as, "THEY WRONG"
For 3 minutes say these:
"Please forgive me, I hurt you, I'm sorry"
"Please forgive me, I hurt you, I'm sorry"
"Please forgive me, I hurt you, I'm sorry"
"It was my fault, not yours"
"It was my fault, not yours"
"It was my fault, not yours"
"Please show me how you did that"
"Please show me how you did that"
"Please show me how you did that"
After 3 minutes:
You will feel a LOAD LEAVING your shoulders
You will feel your LUNGS being able to expand again
You will feel a frown turning into a SMILE
Guess what?
You have begun to FREE yourself
BEST MEDICINE FOR PRIDE = SIMPLY LET IT GO
FORGIVENESS ALLOWS YOU TO LET GO
WHEN YOU LET GO = YOU RECIEVE
BUILD THE ROAD TO RECONCILIATION
7 "A's" to a GOOD APOLOGY
A - ADDRESS the person
A - ADMIT what you did was WRONG
A - ACKNOWLEDGE the HURT you inflicted
A - ACCEPT the consequences
A - AVOID "Ifs OR buts"
A - ALTER reassure behavioural change
A - ASK for genuine forgiveness
TELL THE TRUTH
SHE'll ACCEPT YOUR APOLOGY
Benefits of FORGIVENESS
1) Less ANXIETY
2) Less STRESS
3) Lower BLOOD PRESSURE
4) Cures DEPRESSION
5) Stronger IMMUNE SYSTEM
6) Rebuilds TRUST
7) Renews RELATIONSHIPS
8) Increases MENTAL health
9) Increases EMOTIONAL freedom
10) Re-boots SELF HAPPINESS
MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT, HOLD HANDS WHEN SHE SPEAKS. THEN MAKE YOUR PITCH AND APOLOGY
TRY TO AVOID THIS
BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN IS A WOMAN
Most things are beyond your control.
TRUST GOD
BE FAITHFUL IN AFFLICTION
PRAY FROM YOUR HEART
PATIENT IN WAITING
LOVE
WITH LOVE:
1) CLIMB any mountain
2) CROSS any SEA
3) TRAVERSE any SAND
4) EVERYTHING is POSSIBLE
WITHOUT LOVE:
1) CANNOT move any mountain
2) CANNOT CROSS any SEA
3) CANNOT TRAVERSE and SAND
4) EVERYTHING is IMPOSSIBLE
LOVE BLOCKERS
1) LIES
2) LIES
3) LIES
4) LIES
5) LIES
6) LIES
7) LIES
8) LIES
9) LIES
10) LIES
LOVE FLOOD GATES
1) TRUTH
2) TRUTH
3) TRUTH
4) TRUTH
5) TRUTH
6) TRUTH
7) TRUTH
8) TRUTH
9) TRUTH
10) TRUTH
NO MATTER HOW BIG OR HOW SMALL THE LIE
A LIE IS A LIE....IT LEADS TO DESTRUCTION. ULTIMATELY TO DEATH
THE TRUTH ALWAYS SHOWS UP
THE ONLY POWER IN A LIE = THE ABILITY TO CONSTANTLY RESURRECT ITSELF
THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE
LIES + TIME = TRUTH
TRUTH + TIME = HEALING
No matter which one you tell, it brings the RESULT to the CORRECT ADDRESS in the end.
NOTE TO SELF
Every morning, I take a mental NOTE of the first 3 human beings that I interact with.
1) I Initiate a polite GREETING
2) I SMILE from the SOUL
3) I give an opportunity for FEEDBACK
THE FEEDBACK IS GODS TEST FOR AN AREA IN YOUR SPIRIT THAT NEEDS WORK
Find your answer on the LIST below.
Question ?
Which FRUIT of YOUR SPIRIT needs, reflection, prayer and work?
KEEP GROWING
KEEP LEARNING
KEEP SMILING
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