Friendzone:
A situation in which a friendship exists between two people, one of whom has an unreciprocated romantic or sexual interest in the other.
Many times when you are messaging together, you both have different expectations
Girls need this from a guy friend
A friend who can protect them
They give good and honest advice
They do not have any other motive
They will make you laugh
They are not toxic like other guy or girlfriends
They tend to be less dramatic
They help understand men better
They can rely on him
They will be honest with you
They will allow you to let your inner dude come out to play
They will be your biggest critic
They will listen to you
CONFIDENCE
MATURITY
STRENGTH
LOYALTY
TRUST
Most immature men ONLY want ONE thing
YES SEX
Here is how a woman hears herself speak "BLAH".........He's not LISTENING, why is he not LISTENING
BOYS washroom door
They will break break break your heart
They will shatter it into tiny little pieces
Sometimes whilst with your guy friend you may inadvertently kiss
When this kiss happens, it is proven that the GIVER will have EYES CLOSED
When this kiss happens, it is proven that the receiver will have EYES OPEN
Guys need this from a girl friend
God fearing girl
Pure love
Understanding
Uncomplicated
Maturity
Loyalty
Attention
Blah blah blah sex
Blah blah blah sex
Blah blah blah sex
Here is how a man hears a woman speak "BLAH BLAH BLAH"...SEX..."BLAH BLAH BLAH"...SEX
GIRLS washroom door
Can girls and girls JUST be friends?
Whitney Houston and her best
Guys and girls as friends will exhibit and ALL the qualities of an intimate relationship
They will exhibit ALL these qualities without crossing the BOUNDARIES of the CIRCLE
MIXED SIGNALS ARE COMMON
Many times your friend hooks up with somebody in your circle of friends
Most of the time a friend of YOURS whom she got know through YOU
It actually breaks the friendship up very quickly
You end up being the FRIEND of a FRIEND being included in everything
You end up being included in everything EXCEPT the CORE intimacy that you need
Ever feel like you DO all the work
Ever feel like you LOSE out on the PRIZE
The PRIZE which not not only her BODY
The prize which is also her HEART
When this happens you cannot break down in front of her
When this happens you break down to her BEST friend instead
The CIRCLE of THREE
One trick is never to mention "I'm just your FRIEND"
Never mention "I'm grateful to have a FRIEND LIKE YOU"
If you do, you AUOMATICALLY fall out of the centre of this CIRCLE of three
Chandler and Monica
Great friends
Who found that they cannot do without each other
This can take months, even years to achieve
It take a friendship built on TRUST
By that time you've seen everything
You've seen the BEST
You've seen the WORST
You STUCK around for it all
Yes, even if they dated your best friend
They will eventually come back to you
WHY
Your best friend is NOT you
YOU ARE YOU
FRIEND ZONE
A friendly "I love our friendship grin"
A friendly "I LOVE YOU" grin
They easily cross that friendly line without knowing
They DO KNOW this a SLIPPERY SLOPE for you
Proverbs 17:17
A friend loves at all times
Through everything you go through
GOOD and BAD
Other friends do not want a relationship
Other friends are like a FOX
They want everything and anyone else BUT you
"How you doin"
Classical Joey Tribibiani
Literally everything that moves
Do you know a friend like this
You still love him or her simply because that is how they are
They are honest in this way as this is their true colours
The friend that wants a relationship will go to the all the trouble
He will do whatever it takes to impress you
He will fail, but remain consistent in your pursuit
Yes like a wounded buffalo
He will carry you when he is dead tired
He will LISTEN to you when he is exhausted
When you are vulnerable
When he cannot contain your beauty anymore he will touch you
When you are overwhelmed by emotional distraught he will make that move
ALL to CLIMB out of this FIRNEDZONE
Even when all that happens
Even with all of these signs of his affection
The girl will still HURT him
You literally feel you are constantly in the HEART BREAK HOTEL
My girl the movie
This affection can start at an early age
This affection towards you starts as a tiny FLAME
This affection grows to become a RAGING uncontrollable FIRE of DESIRE for you
You grew up sharing intimate SECRETS
You made a PACT
You literally created an unbreakable BOND
Do you remember your FIRST KISS
WHY
WHO
WHEN
WAS it special
When you both allowed each other
When you both CONSENTED
TRUST
BOND
A FLAME began to grow from that very moment
Did you share this moment in a secret place
It was your romantic getaway
You didn’t know it at the time
You became FRIENDS FOR LIFE
Possibly your WIFE
Possibly your HUSBAND
For the rest of your life you spend your search searching for your Macaulay Culkin
You simply UNDERSTOOD each other
You've told him everything
Still you walk away
Still you turned your back on him
He watched you CRY
He watched you LAUGH
He saw your HIGHS
He saw your LOWS
Always made the wrong choice and went with the BAD BOYS with no FEELINGS
Still you explored with Mr WRONG
Still you were captured by Mr WRONG's deception
I want to know what love is
I want YOU to show me
ONLY YOU
Know one else
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
1) QUALITY TIME
2) WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
3) PHYSICAL TOUCH
4) RECEIVING GIFTS
5) ACTS OF SERVICE
What is yours
Do you have TWO?
Where is your love tank today
WHY
WHERE IS HE
WHERE IS SHE
WHO ARE THEY WITH
When you pay attention to your partners love language you DRAW closer to that person
So CLOSE
CLOSE enough to almost KISS
Why, because you understand THEM
Why, because they understand YOU
You never realise what you've got until it's GONE
If you do not pay attention to the 5 LOVE languages they will simply LEAVE
They will LEAVE to find the elsewhere
Moment of realisation
He is pathetic
You are pathetic
You are meant for each other
A mans weakness is the inability to LISTEN
A mans weakness is the inability to give your partner YOUR ATTENTION UNDIVDED ATTENTION
No DISTRACTIONS
No DEVICES
No WIFI
It comes with practice
Practice makes PERFECT
With PERFECTION IMPERFECT dissapears
They STAY and stand by your side
A shoulder to LEAN on
As long as you PROVIDE it
As long as you are willing to put in the TIME to LISTEN
As long as you are willing to be there
As long as you are willing to stay no matter what
That's what truly MATTERS
Do not underestimate the power of QUALITY TIME
When some body gives you their TIME
They are giving you love
Be AVAILABLE
Be there
I'llbe there
Search your mind
Search the depths your HEART
Search the brightest part of your SOUL
LOOK UP
HE IS RIGHT THERE
SHE IS RIGHT THERE
THEY ALWAYS HAVE BEEN THERE
YOU MARRY YOUR SCHOOL SWEETHEART
THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE
Just we CHOSE to look in ALL the WRONG PLACES
THE CHOICE LIES WITH YOU
ONLY YOU
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