Love has 5 languages . Do you know yours? Do you know his?

Do you know the 5 LOVE languages?

1) Quality TIME

2) Physical TOUCH

3) Words of AFFIRMATION

4) Receiving GIFTS

5) Acts of SERVICE

One must understand that there is always CONFLICT between the BRAIN and the HEART

The clue is that, the BRAIN is the BOSS

Functions of the brain

RIGHT brain controls FEELINGS

You're RIGHT

WOMEN ARE DOMINANT WHEN IT COMES TO EMOTIONS

They are COMPLEX CREATURES THAT NEED LOTS OF LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND

Men need to pay close attention to this phenomenon, as it will build greater understanding to build a greater relationship .

Communication requires practice,

At times we get so overwhelmed with processing information, we end up confused .

Communication is the GLUE in every Relationship.

It has to FLOW

Communication becomes better by building more intimacy between each other

The truth is, bad things, feelings even assumptions will happen BUT, it always best to communicate and gain understanding .

Once having done that, TURN the page and begin a new chapter together .

TRUTH

Truth is the ONLY policy, it brings peace, not always the best topics or news, BUT, it builds TRUST that lasts.

Arguments will come, BUT it gives the opportunity for FORGIVENESS

Forgiveness binds us, brings us even closer to each other.

Quality TIME

1) Undivided attention. No phone, no distractions

2) Eye contact

3) Active listening

Physical TOUCH

1) Non verbal

2) Hugs, kisses, cuddles

3) Sex

4) Reach out hold hands

5) Initiate sexual behaviour

Words of AFFIRMATION

1) Compliments and feedback

2) Empathize, affirm and appreciate

3) Love NOTES, unexpected TEXTS, CARDS

Receiving GIFTS

1) Flowers

2) Chocolates

3) Presents

Acts of SERVICE

1) Taking out the garbage

2) Taking the car to service

3) Helping in the dishes

A couple of TIPS

Constant communication is VITAL and KEY to maintaining your relationship

Women and men both share expressions differently

Women are more expressive

Men are not

The answer is in the eyes

Things to avoid.

Here is the question

What do women need?

What do men need?

What men want

1) Loving

2) Competitive

3) Friendly

4) Generous

5) Sympathetic

6) Attractive

What women want

1) Bold

2) Assertive

3) Competitive

4) Capable

5) Dominant

6) Admired

One of the biggest things you can give away is TIME. YOUR TIME.

If animals can express love to us, we can do BETTER towards each other .

FORGIVE AND FORGET.

With LOVE you can do anything .

Without LOVE you cannot do anything .

Love somebody so much, they become your every breath, so they know you'll always be there.

LOVE can be expressed in many different ways. Just showing that you care can be enough .

LOVE LIST

Forgiveness

Misunderstanding

Clarity

Consistency

Pride aside

Motivate

Elevate

Gravitate

Crawl

Walk

Run

Perseverance

No stopping

Effort

Chasing

Helpful

Influence

Why is it so difficult for men to understand what we want?

He is not speaking my LOVE language at all.

He seems so right, BUT, he just doesn’t seem to CARE how I feel.

MORE WORDS:

Accepting

Adaptable

Adventurous

Affectionate

Alive

AMBITIOUS

Assured

Brave

Bright

Capable

Cheerful

Clever

COMMITTED

Confident

Consolidate

CONSISTENT

CARING

Courage

DECISIVE

Dedicated

Determined

Delight

Doer

Eager

Effective

Experienced

FAITHFUL

FEARLESS

FLEXIBLE

FOCUSED

FORGIVING

Forward looking

Free

HAPPY

HEALTHY

Hopeful

Imaginative

Ingenious

KNOWLEDGE

LOVING

LOYAL

MATURE

Open

Optimistic

ORDERLY

ORGANIZED

PATIENT

Perceptive

PERSERVERING

POSITIVE

POWERFUL

RECEPTIVE

RELIABLE

STABLE

STRONG

THOUGHTFUL

TRUSTWORTHY

UNDERSTANDING

Unique

Unstoppable

WILLING

WISE

Definition of LOVE:

NIV Bible, 1st Corinthians Chapter 13 V 1 - 13