Do you know the 5 LOVE languages?
1) Quality TIME
2) Physical TOUCH
3) Words of AFFIRMATION
4) Receiving GIFTS
5) Acts of SERVICE
One must understand that there is always CONFLICT between the BRAIN and the HEART
The clue is that, the BRAIN is the BOSS
Functions of the brain
RIGHT brain controls FEELINGS
You're RIGHT
WOMEN ARE DOMINANT WHEN IT COMES TO EMOTIONS
They are COMPLEX CREATURES THAT NEED LOTS OF LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND
Men need to pay close attention to this phenomenon, as it will build greater understanding to build a greater relationship .
Communication requires practice,
At times we get so overwhelmed with processing information, we end up confused .
Communication is the GLUE in every Relationship.
It has to FLOW
Communication becomes better by building more intimacy between each other
The truth is, bad things, feelings even assumptions will happen BUT, it always best to communicate and gain understanding .
Once having done that, TURN the page and begin a new chapter together .
TRUTH
Truth is the ONLY policy, it brings peace, not always the best topics or news, BUT, it builds TRUST that lasts.
Arguments will come, BUT it gives the opportunity for FORGIVENESS
Forgiveness binds us, brings us even closer to each other.
Quality TIME
1) Undivided attention. No phone, no distractions
2) Eye contact
3) Active listening
Physical TOUCH
1) Non verbal
2) Hugs, kisses, cuddles
3) Sex
4) Reach out hold hands
5) Initiate sexual behaviour
Words of AFFIRMATION
1) Compliments and feedback
2) Empathize, affirm and appreciate
3) Love NOTES, unexpected TEXTS, CARDS
Receiving GIFTS
1) Flowers
2) Chocolates
3) Presents
Acts of SERVICE
1) Taking out the garbage
2) Taking the car to service
3) Helping in the dishes
A couple of TIPS
Constant communication is VITAL and KEY to maintaining your relationship
Women and men both share expressions differently
Women are more expressive
Men are not
The answer is in the eyes
Things to avoid.
Here is the question
What do women need?
What do men need?
What men want
1) Loving
2) Competitive
3) Friendly
4) Generous
5) Sympathetic
6) Attractive
What women want
1) Bold
2) Assertive
3) Competitive
4) Capable
5) Dominant
6) Admired
One of the biggest things you can give away is TIME. YOUR TIME.
If animals can express love to us, we can do BETTER towards each other .
FORGIVE AND FORGET.
With LOVE you can do anything .
Without LOVE you cannot do anything .
Love somebody so much, they become your every breath, so they know you'll always be there.
LOVE can be expressed in many different ways. Just showing that you care can be enough .
LOVE LIST
Forgiveness
Misunderstanding
Clarity
Consistency
Pride aside
Motivate
Elevate
Gravitate
Crawl
Walk
Run
Perseverance
No stopping
Effort
Chasing
Helpful
Influence
Why is it so difficult for men to understand what we want?
He is not speaking my LOVE language at all.
He seems so right, BUT, he just doesn’t seem to CARE how I feel.
MORE WORDS:
Accepting
Adaptable
Adventurous
Affectionate
Alive
AMBITIOUS
Assured
Brave
Bright
Capable
Cheerful
Clever
COMMITTED
Confident
Consolidate
CONSISTENT
CARING
Courage
DECISIVE
Dedicated
Determined
Delight
Doer
Eager
Effective
Experienced
FAITHFUL
FEARLESS
FLEXIBLE
FOCUSED
FORGIVING
Forward looking
Free
HAPPY
HEALTHY
Hopeful
Imaginative
Ingenious
KNOWLEDGE
LOVING
LOYAL
MATURE
Open
Optimistic
ORDERLY
ORGANIZED
PATIENT
Perceptive
PERSERVERING
POSITIVE
POWERFUL
RECEPTIVE
RELIABLE
STABLE
STRONG
THOUGHTFUL
TRUSTWORTHY
UNDERSTANDING
Unique
Unstoppable
WILLING
WISE
Definition of LOVE:
NIV Bible, 1st Corinthians Chapter 13 V 1 - 13
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